Dear Aunty Timi by Ejura Salihu

 It has been twenty years since the last time I saw you and it was a surprise to see you again today. However the surprise is not a pleasant one, it is one filled with anger and pain at a memory half forgotten. I remember feeling like you owed me something I could not ask for the day you left.

You came to me and asked for a hug and a kiss and I relented. Mummy rebuked me and I reluctantly obliged. I remember being angry with mum for days for that. How could she not see her precious little sister was defiling me? How could she not tell I was hurting? I did not understand why I felt like I was betraying the family by being molested by you. I felt naked, ashamed and angry.

Mummy always warned me against allowing boys to touch my wooha but she never said anything about girls or you so I was confused the first time you touched me and forced me to lick your wooha. I cried and begged and hurt when you put your finger in me but I couldn't tell mummy because I didn't know if you had a right to, you told me you had a right to, you said I was just a little girl and little girls obey orders. You lied, you betrayed me. You stayed for only a month but that short holiday changed the course of my life forever.

Rape: The Victim, Society & Breaking the Silence.

One day at lunch, a group of four young men seated by me were having a discussion about a rape video. They chatted so loudly about it I had no problem tuning my ears for better reception. Any ways, even though they had no knowledge of the perpetrator and victim, they spoke as if they did. All except one agreed that the lady deserved what she got and was to be blamed. The lady represented a case study related to their own experiences.

I listened as they bragged about their rape escapades giving counts of the number of girls they'd raped as proofs. Some were hailed for ‘doing’ more than the others. To them, rape is an act of dominance and gaining control over difficult unwilling girls ––  it's used punish and degrade them.

Movie: Watch "I Spit On Your Grave 2"

Hello guyz! So we gave you the link to watch 'I Spit On Your Grave' HERE and you said you loved it. Well, you better be ready to watch "I Spit On Your Grave 2." This second part is about Katie,  a beautiful girl in NY, who is trying to make it in the cutthroat world of modelling. Not having enough money to pay for a professional photo shoot, she accepts a free offer to have new photos taken for her portfolio, but the experience immediately turned into an unthinkable nightmare. She was severely beaten, battered, bruised and broken by 3 brothers (the photographers) and amazingly their MOTHER! Abeg is it a bad thing to like free things, hehehe... Well, she didn't only have to fight to survive, but to ultimately find the strength to exact her brutal revenge. She came back for a REVENGE! This is the story of another rape survivor.

You would have had to pay to watch this movie in a cinema, but we are giving the link out for free (just for you special people)! This is not just for entertainment, it's to enlighten and encourage you to preach the need to stop rape.

Watch the movie HERE. Please don't watch if you are below 21.